Improve Intimacy with Dr. Fran

Happy Valentines Day Everyone! I have a few things to say about this Hallmark creation, this 17.6 Billion Dollar – yes that’s Billion with a capital B holiday. My main pet peeve about this holiday is that it’s only one day, that 17.6 Billion dollars spent on one day could be put to so much [...]

Have you ever noticed that many people still seem to carry the belief that our sex lives get worse, not better, after marriage? In fact there are several bad taste jokes to amplify the message: “What’s the best diet to reduce sex? Wedding Cake!” As a sex therapist I find this belief is not only [...]

SexFaks by Dr. Fran ~ Play love songs as often as possible – Pandora is free and you can choose the genre. Check out my product site ~ Fantasy Aid Kits 

“Mirroring”: A Communication Exercise Instructions Sit close together in up right chairs, pick who goes first and look into your partners eyes. Each person gets to speak uninterrupted for 2 minutes with no comments, criticism, clarification or facial expression to display any emotion. Now switch seats, the “Listener” is sitting in the “Speakers” seat.  Take [...]

Keep It Simple Sweetheart and you may achieve sexual and spiritual harmony.   Do you ever feel afraid to tell your love partner your fantasy? Have you ever begun to share a sexual secret and stopped because of your partner’s response?  Even a subtle facial expression of disapproval can close down communication. Are you afraid [...]

This blog is to follow up with my podcast titled, Sexual Dysfunctions. Click here to listen. Foreplay can take hours.  We are conditioned to think that the reason for foreplay is to get the juices flowing allowing easier entry for the penis.  I want to dispel this myth and stress that the reason for foreplay [...]

Please take the time to read through the sermon and highlight sections that you feel are still true. Not to mention, this was written over 100 years ago! Methodist Minister’s Sermon Instruction and Advice for the Young Bride To the sensitive young woman who has had the benefits of proper upbringing, the wedding day is, [...]